Bea Killion Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 Two weeks ago we had to say goodbye to our little Crystal. (Bichon Frise). She was 17 and had been blind for over 6 years but she had adjusted to it and still went for her daily walks. But the time came where she just didn't act like herself anymore, pacing, whining, just going in circles. We didn't know if she was is pain or just trying to hold on for us. So we took her to the vet to get his opinion. He told us that her quality of life was not there any more and it was fair to let her slip easily into her final sleep. It's just such a hard thing to do, no matter what. We always question ourselves about this decision. Especially since she still greeted us and wagged her tail when we came home. And when I held her in my arms in the evenings and talked to her, it seemed like she was looking into my eyes and listening to me. We picked up her ashes last week and took her for her last walk along the lake. It was like getting my heart ripped out. Our little fur babies bring us so much love and happiness. We never have enough time with them. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kabrina Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 I am so sorry for your loss. It's so hard to loose one of our furrbabies. It sounds like she had a very long fulfilled life and was truly loved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chapchap73 Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 :hug: It's always hard, but you have lots of happy memories. Give your other guys extra cuddles. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otterine Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 So very sad. Sending hugs your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Contrary Housewife Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris P. Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 Oh, I know! It is hard not to second guess these important decisions we have to make about our fur kids. It is better, though, not to have them suffer. They can't tell us what they need; we are entrusted with understanding them and providing the best care and attention possible. It is so tough to make those final decisions, but so important. You were there for her all the way and helped her transition over the Rainbow Bridge, knowing only the love of your tender care as you held her. What better gift could you give her? She had a good life with you and a good transition to the beyond. Sending you condolences, hugs and big love. I know your heart is hurting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starfire Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 My deepest sympathy. We have lost a few and it never gets easier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Jupiter Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 So sorry for your loss. It's so hard. I lost three poms years ago and they still pop up in my dreams from time to time. They were 17 also. But I know they are in a good place and so is Crystal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrchob Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 Bea, I am so terribly sorry. Try not to question your decision. She was telling you it was time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-defunct account- Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 As time passes you will begin to heal and feel more and more that it was the right decision. It's hard to be sure about that right now, I understand completely. There is limited communication, no way to tell them what is happening or have them explain how they're feeling. You're left to make the decision to say goodbye to your fuzzy best friend, you don't want to...but you know deep down it's best. It sounds like Crystal had a wonderfully caring human family and lived a long life because of it. Big hugs to you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KoalaSam Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 So sorry Brae. It's so hard to say goodbye. Sending hugs to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patkneazle Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 You gave her a wonderful life, and that is the only consolation when you must let them go. It is so hard. Virtual hugs and blessings to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxine Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 Bea Sorry for your loss. It never gets easy to says goodbye. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morgansmith Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 Our pets are part of our family too. I understand how great your loss is. Never forget what a gift it was to be allowed to peacefully escort your baby over that bridge. The loss I will NEVER forget was the one where my cat died naturally. I decided then and there, if I couldn't love my babies enough to give them a peaceful end to this life, I did not deserve them at all. The choice you got to make said I Love You as surely as any words or actions ever could. Also, WHEN you get another, you are honoring the one you lost. Not replacing her. Honoring. Wishing you the very best at this sad time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jas Posted April 5, 2012 Share Posted April 5, 2012 So sorry to hear of your loss. Hold on to all of your wonderful memories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kari Lynn Posted April 6, 2012 Share Posted April 6, 2012 So sorry for your loss, Bea. Sending you my sincere sympathy, and hugs from one pet lover to another. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minsanity Posted April 6, 2012 Share Posted April 6, 2012 So sorry about the loss of your baby. They are so very precious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grynche Posted April 6, 2012 Share Posted April 6, 2012 Picture her playing with my little girl. They'll be the modern version of the old Black and White Scotch ads. I still wish at times I'd had waited, and given myself a few more days with my precious Scottie, but I'd never have forgiven myself if my selfishness had caused her pain. Your heart will tell you when you're ready for another. Just listen to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
New Day Posted April 6, 2012 Share Posted April 6, 2012 I'm so sorry Bea. Crystal knew your love and you did what was best for her every step of the way. We had to let our little Sushi go 2.5 yrs ago and I think of him every day, still. It hurts less as time goes by, but he is always near in my heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pat Posted April 6, 2012 Share Posted April 6, 2012 You were her angel for all those years, now she is your angel! Peace! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LindaC Posted April 6, 2012 Share Posted April 6, 2012 My hubby Ernie was there waiting for Crystal. All my birdie friends that have gone were there too in that Perfect world. Crystal is in great company I can tell you. ((hugs)) and tears from me. LindaC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
what2craftnow Posted April 6, 2012 Share Posted April 6, 2012 I am so sorry for your loss Bea. Have been there more times than I like to think about, and it never gets any easier...even when you know in your heart you've done the right thing. Sending you gentle {{{hugs}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chellebelle Posted April 6, 2012 Share Posted April 6, 2012 :hug: Hugs and sympathy on your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
havanaholly Posted April 9, 2012 Share Posted April 9, 2012 :hug: Bea, I felt that pain all over again, but it was absolutely the right thing to do for little Crystal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bea Killion Posted May 19, 2012 Author Share Posted May 19, 2012 Thanks so much everyone for your sweet comments. I just came from the store and went I past by the doggie stuff, I wanted to cry. My heart still hurts so bad. I know i'm supposed to cherish all the good times we shared, and I do, but I just get so attached to my little fur babies. I never even let anyone stay with them. We take them with us wherever we go, even if it means staying in a lower-class motel where they take dogs. And if we want to go look at something, or go in shops, we take turns. (I know, I'm a little crazy"). But I can't help it. We do leave them at home for a couple of hours when we go somewhere not more than an hour away from home. Right now, I have a 2 year old malt-poo, and 2, 5 year old Basset hound sisters. Don't have any family down here, and just 1 friend across the street. So my dogs don't have visitors to the house. So they are just used to my husband and myself. And I'm retired so I'm home with them all the time. This makes them very upset when we leave. I guess that's why, I spoil them so much. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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